Finding Balance: A Message from a Fellow Business Owner

Hey there, wonderful clients and friends…

It's time for a heart-to-heart chat about something that's been on my mind lately: work-life balance. As a fellow business owner, I'm all too familiar with the hustle and bustle of trying to keep everything afloat. But here's the thing – I've learned the hard way that there's a delicate balance between being successful in business and living a fulfilling life outside of work.

So, why do I preach about not overworking myself and keeping work separate from family time? It's simple: because I've been there, done that, and learned some valuable lessons along the way. Trust me, burning the midnight oil might seem productive in the short term, but in the long run, it can lead to burnout and regrets. More recently, I’ve told my son to tell me off when I’m working out of hours, or over the weekend. He has full permission to give me a talking-to because I’ve caught myself telling him to wait 10 minutes whilst mummy finishes an email….which ends up being two hours and I’ve missed vital 1-on-1 time with my son. When they ask you why you work so much and they’re only 3, you know you need to take a step back!

That's why I'm a firm believer in setting boundaries and taking time to recharge. Weekends are sacred – a time to unplug, unwind, and reconnect with what truly matters. And guess what? You can do it too! Yes, you. You don't have to do it all alone. Just like I have my trusty virtual assistant to support me during busy periods, you can delegate tasks and lighten your load. Your sanity and well-being are worth it, I promise.

Now, let's talk about perspective – oh, how important it is! You see, I've met countless people who, in the face of a health scare or a life-altering event, suddenly gained a new perspective on what truly matters in life. And you know what they all say? They wish they hadn't spent so much time chained to their desks, chasing after success at the expense of their relationships and personal happiness.

Please don’t wait for a wake-up call to realise the importance of balance and perspective. We're not going to be remembered for the hours we spent working or the digits in our bank accounts. No, what truly matters are the memories we create with our loved ones and the presence we bring to their lives. This especially rings true if you have kids.

So, here's to finding that sweet spot between work and play, between ambition and contentment. We should always prioritise our well-being, nurture our relationships, and savour the moments that truly matter. And if you ever need a reminder or a helping hand, I'll be right here, cheering you on every step of the way. Because, together, we can build successful businesses and lead fulfilling lives no matter what society may say.